Do you remember that moment when you had to write down in the slam book who your best friend was?which friend gets to have the first piece of cake? That awkward pause where you have to prioritize your handful of friends.you know there is this one friend whom you love a little more than the others, you can't help beaming when you write their name, you feel empowered, you cherish their friendship , and thats when you go down the nostalgic lane..
Friends come in all shapes and sizes, with a hundred different wavelengths, being friends in childhood is like first love, sweet and cute,
they mean the world to you, you usually don't hold grudges, you forgive so quickly, trust me atleast one of them will cling to you for a lifetime.you all sob when you leave , some come along ,some fade away, thats how life works right? now comes the prime of youth in all its glory, the rebellion of guys, the rosy dreams of girls, this period is when you become the unofficial knight in shining armor.you vouch so fiercely for your friends, to be there till death do you guys apart.commendable.alas! the fantasy land comes crumbling, differences start cropping up,you wish your friend understood you a little better, you hope you shared a few more things in common, you want to blurt out what you feel but you simply cant.you fear ruining your friendship.it gets awkward.you start reminiscing the bygone memories of happier times, times with friends from childhood.but you can't help pining away for your current friends.life is tough, isn't it? And now comes the time to prioritize, whether your pride or your friend is worth dumping, I don't blame either decision, because no one can stand in your shoes.just make sure you don't look back and regret it.for the record, I haven't.life is fun with friends but do be geared up for a few unforgettable, unbelievable lessons you are going to learn the hard way, your childhood friends will always hold an irreplaceable position in your heart, you may be drifting apart, you may not pour open your heart, but thinking of them warms your heart.your friends from college will stay with you, no matter what, but just make sure you give your best shot at valuing their friendship.the rest is upto them. every one should have that 4 am friend, a friend in front of whom you can cry unabashedly and howl .this is how life works. with friends, egos, grudges, silences keep popping up, its about how you can handle the storm.so , give a high five, laugh till tears well up, confront when you want to, and a few times just let it be.friendships too are meant to be for a lifetime.till then adios amigos..
Friends come in all shapes and sizes, with a hundred different wavelengths, being friends in childhood is like first love, sweet and cute,
they mean the world to you, you usually don't hold grudges, you forgive so quickly, trust me atleast one of them will cling to you for a lifetime.you all sob when you leave , some come along ,some fade away, thats how life works right? now comes the prime of youth in all its glory, the rebellion of guys, the rosy dreams of girls, this period is when you become the unofficial knight in shining armor.you vouch so fiercely for your friends, to be there till death do you guys apart.commendable.alas! the fantasy land comes crumbling, differences start cropping up,you wish your friend understood you a little better, you hope you shared a few more things in common, you want to blurt out what you feel but you simply cant.you fear ruining your friendship.it gets awkward.you start reminiscing the bygone memories of happier times, times with friends from childhood.but you can't help pining away for your current friends.life is tough, isn't it? And now comes the time to prioritize, whether your pride or your friend is worth dumping, I don't blame either decision, because no one can stand in your shoes.just make sure you don't look back and regret it.for the record, I haven't.life is fun with friends but do be geared up for a few unforgettable, unbelievable lessons you are going to learn the hard way, your childhood friends will always hold an irreplaceable position in your heart, you may be drifting apart, you may not pour open your heart, but thinking of them warms your heart.your friends from college will stay with you, no matter what, but just make sure you give your best shot at valuing their friendship.the rest is upto them. every one should have that 4 am friend, a friend in front of whom you can cry unabashedly and howl .this is how life works. with friends, egos, grudges, silences keep popping up, its about how you can handle the storm.so , give a high five, laugh till tears well up, confront when you want to, and a few times just let it be.friendships too are meant to be for a lifetime.till then adios amigos..
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